situation:
i see him all alone at the computer games lab at uni at 10am in the holidays (hes studying games design) but i had to go, so i asked him later online why he was there.
he says: Having an all night lan. Lol that sounds so nerdy.
i say: haha seriously? all by yourself?
him: lol no with male_friend_1 and male_friend_2. This is probably why I'm single haha.
me: nah. lan parties are win.
him: Lol are you a gamer girl?
i said not really,
but guys what would you do, i mean if you wanted a gamer girl, would you settle for me?
this next part describes my relationship with games:
during primary school my parents let my play spyro on ps1 as a child. i loved all those games, i'd get up at like 3am so i could play them for like 8 hours straight, (after my rents woke up they always told me to get off after 1 hour, they didnt want me playing video games). I did the same for heaps of little flash games when we finally bought a computer. then i found a tarzan computer game that i also got obsessed with. then they bought me a ps2 and yea. i always played computer games but things like harry potter, atlantis, alladin, shark tale, finding nemo, etc (actually now i come to think of it, most of them were based off of movies), and a couple car racing games, and bmx/quad bike/bike games etc. so they were kind of gay games. when i was 14 i wanted to buy final fantasy but my parents wouldnt let me. when i was 14 i also played halo for the first time. needless to say, i was crap. my friend who was a real gamer girl at that time kept running me over, repeatedly, straight after i respawned.
when i was 16 i played urban terror a couple times, but i was so crap at that and my computer couldnt handle it, by this point i was obsessed with many flash games including N. By this point i'd also found a simulator and felt like i could finally live the childhood id always wanted (by playing mario kart, mario world, zelda, banjo kazooie, etc on computer) i also downloaded rapellz to see if id like that but computer couldnt handle it. when i was 17 i got some money and bought a whole heap of games on steam. most of them were gay cheap ones, (like the star wars ones, but i wanted them just to practise), thats when i bought bioshock but turns out its too freaky for me lol good thing i didnt buy left 4 dead. i liked avatar despite the bad reviews but once again computer is fail and couldnt quite handle it. I also really really liked prince of persia and my computer could handle it (so i fully completed that one). then i went away for a year and couldnt play anything. came back, now i have a foster brother who is a gamer. he owns an xbox and some games, he let me play assasins creed and i really liked that one, i even totally completed it. He also plays COD alot so whenever he was playing zombies or live he always let me play too. i was terrible. nearly always the worst on the team but by the end of it i was beginning to get kill streaks against level 40-50 people and schtuffle. but hes currently banned from xbox so now i havent been able to play anything for several months.
so i dont play much now and i dont own many games except for some dodge ones online i never play
would you call me a gamer? try-hard gamer? casual gamer? or just someone not completely opposed to gaming? or what.
REAL QUESTION. GUYS IF YOU ONLY WANT TO DATE GAMER GIRLS, WOULD YOU SETTLE FOR ME?Am i a gamer girl? if not, would you settle for me? (you being a guy who only wants to date gamers)?
I'm sure the Gamer aspects isn't the only thing that will be important if you want to get together; yes it would be an initial conversation/similar interests thing but you need to have an attraction or spark and get on despite the gaming. Maybe just get talking to him more and see how it goes, see whether you get on etc.
ps don't be so worried about the 'casual gamer' 'hardcore gamer' thing, just enjoy playing them, who cares lol.
Good luck :)
i love to play games, i dont mind dating a girl who doesnt play, as long as she doesnt hate me playing gamesAm i a gamer girl? if not, would you settle for me? (you being a guy who only wants to date gamers)?
of course i would settle for anyone even you but yeah youre a casual gamer whats your steam ?
i would say casual gamer, and it depends what you look likeAm i a gamer girl? if not, would you settle for me? (you being a guy who only wants to date gamers)?
i have been gaming for 35 years now and i think it would be great to find a girl/women who plays video games.but if i found said girl/women and they didn't play video games and we hit it off,i don't consider that to be settling.you sound like an intelligent,attractive girl,so if this guy is interested and you hit it off,i wouldn't worry about the gamer girl tag.as far as what type of gamer you are,your a gamer,period,have fun with it that's what video games are suppose to be there for,fun.hope this helps.good luck.hope all goes well for you.
I highly doubt that it's that important if you are a "gamer girl" or not, even if he classes him self as a "hard core gamer" I'm sure that he wont only be interested in "gamer girls".
I play video games quite a lot but my girlfriend doesn't, she will play the odd game, but she's not obsessed with it, which is kinda nice, because it means that there is a variety on things that we can talk about, and not just video games.
I expect that he would go for you (providing your personalities match and he finds you attractive), but the key to keeping the relationship happy is both sides being able to talk about how they feel.
Maybe you should drop some hints about how you "don't mind a guy who games" or "you would like to play a couple of matches of something with him" (this is not an innuendo).
Providing you can both communicate well with each other and you give each other enough "me time" then I'm sure that everything will work out. The key is good communication, because unfortunately humans can't read minds.
I hope it work out for you!
I don't think there are guys who would date only gamer girls! It depends on who you are!
I would not really want a gamer girl. I would date a chick who is hot, nice and chilled out. I do play games but I would not like a chick to be like "Oh yeah lets play Xbox" I would not really like that. I think you should be yourself and not try and be a "Gamer Girl" and just chill out a bit.
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